Personality before looks

I love when someone can teach me something. It’s impossible to know everything. The best thing to do is reach out to others to attain information we didn’t have before. In order to do that we need to admit to ourselves that we’re not perfect. In our imperfection, we agree that there are some things we don’t understand, but our openness shows our desire to learn through someone else.

I haven’t known him very long, but he’s taught me a lot in the short time he’s been in my life. In addition to proving good things take time, he’s shown me a new side to romance. I realized how little I knew about romance after meeting him. The way he makes me feel is beyond anything I’ve felt before because I know it’s real. Due to his interest in my personality before my looks, we’ve created a strong emotional bond. When he tells me I’m beautiful, I know he’s talking about who I am on the inside and outside.

“When you fall for someone’s personality, everything about them becomes beautiful.”

Unlike other guys, I initially fell in love with his personality. It’s not that I didn’t find him physically attractive, but the infatuation with his looks didn’t get in the way of emotional bonding. Even before meeting each other in person, I started falling for him. It was his sense of humor and intelligence that made him appealing to me. The more I got to know the contents of his mind and heart, the more attractive he became. Every time we talk I see what makes him unique, and when we’re together he makes me laugh harder than anyone else. This is a phenomenon I’ve never experienced, but I like it.

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